How do you know if the attraction is mutual? You can be pretty sure that they are not if you have not been “pushed” into that situation but still want to continue talking to them. The number one rule is to take the lead and make it easy for him.
I am always unsure as to how to make him feel wanted and confident. If he has been pushing for a relationship with me then I am thinking that I should be able to tell and be the one to push him into it.
Sure, I might think of several reasons why it might be a good idea to go for it. For example, you might be interested in having children and want to give the opportunity to have a baby to him. Or maybe he might just enjoy spending time with you.
But what about some other, less obvious reasons why it might be worth him pushing for a serious relationship with you? What would you do if you had no idea if the attraction was mutual?
I am not talking about the physical attraction. If he seems to be very well attracted to you and willing to put the effort into making his actions and words seem sincere then, there is a good chance that the attraction is mutual.
The second thing that you should look for is whether he is asking you out. He should not just randomly ask you out. It needs to be something that you want to do together and it needs to be something that he feels some level of commitment to.
Things should be starting to happen and it should be something that you want to pursue. Maybe the courtship is taking a bit longer than you wanted it to because you are worried about whether or not he wants to take things to the next level. Then you need to take the initiative and meet him somewhere that is unexpected and that will make him wonder just what you are up to.
Making him feel wanted, being committed to him and using his feelings to coax him into pursuing you is how you become “hit on”. It’s how you show him that you are confident in him. It’s how you show him that you love him and you want to keep him happy.
Don’t hesitate to let him know that you want to make him happy. Be upfront and direct. Let him know that you are in fact open to a serious relationship and that you want him to come along for the ride.
A lot of women get stuck in this dilemma where they try to find ways to make a guy feel wanted without quite knowing how to approach it in a way that really turns him on. If you can get him off his game and onto yours then you will be on your way to knowing how to push him to take the next step.Being able to find that point when you are ready to take the next step and to feel that next level of mutual attraction will give you the confidence to move forward. It is the key to finding the way to get a guy to chase you.
Make a guy feel wanted and you will have an edge in most situations. Your ability to push him to take that next step into a serious relationship will give you an upper hand.